There are times in life
Where people say things.
Not just normal things.
Things that make you wonder
"Am I really that different? From them? Is that why they say these things?"
And you tend to wonder
Why is it that people, say such things when were all naturally unique
Why is it that people must point out at that one person who is different?
When one person does something great
It is acknowledged
When one person does something wrong
It is cursed, criticized, it's a black mark in history
Sometimes you wonder
We do 100 good things in life
But just 1 bad thing is enough to ruin it all
To make everyone diss you, criticize you and ensure your downfall
Why is it that humans are such critical beings?
Why is it that humans are unable to accept things that are out of the ordinary
When you look at someone else, you look at his bad points more easily
than his good points (criticism)
But when you compare yourself to someone else you compare your
bad points to their good points ("He's richer than me")
We can be such hypocrites (:
We always
Talk bad things
About others
whenever we have nothing to say in conversations
Kick that habit
Say something good about someone
Because we in ourselves are imperfect
Which is again, as what I stated in the previous cracks of life in my old blog
Humans were made to be imperfect
Otherwise we aren't humans
And we probably would lose our meaning to live
We, being so imperfect
Have no right to judge someone else
Unless they asked our honest opinion
Because they would judge you in return otherwise
Ask yourself how many times have you spoken bad about someone
Ask yourself how many times have you spoken good about someone
It's a truly sad thing
Acceptance.
When you think of it.
It carries a truly important meaning
Acceptance among friends
Acceptance among family members
Acceptance among colleagues, teachers, and strangers
Along our lives, there will be times where we would need it, this
"Acceptance"
But it is not all the time we are accepted by peers
There are times you are left out of groups of friends
And your only way is to try so hard to fit in although you never will
Or even among family members, some parents may have extremely high expectations
And may never accept you for all the times you've failed them
Colleagues, teachers.
In fact we seek acceptance all the time among people of different class in society
But there has been one more type of acceptance which we all
have forgotten
The one most important thing.
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Us accepting ourselves for who we are
We can't accept ourselves, because we are unable to fit in with friends and society
So we try so hard to change ourselves to fit in
For the sake of your friends liking you
You change, I change
It happens. Even as I write this, even as you are reading this.
That's the kind of world we live in.
But in the end, you discover
You don't really know yourself anymore
You get lost in a world where you don't know how you should act
Should I act that way just so my friends like me?
Even if you feel unhappy, you still do it just to please your friends
"at least now im friends with them"
Is what everyone thinks
It's kinda sad,but, I think a lot of people have walked down
that path before
As well as myself
When I was a kid, in primary, I was always so shy and quiet
I was truly afraid of what people said if I voiced out my opinions
"will they judge me? Will they hate me?"
So I just kept it all inside. Me.
But I discovered
I was truly unhappy, being unable to express myself fully
The way I wish to
My happy days became dull when I went to school
I always came back sad whenever my friends would comment about
the things I said whenever I talked
I felt... so.... discouraged. I almost never talked much in those days
Then there came a time where... I said
"I can't wait for people to accept me. Because... Maybe I was
never really opening up to them"
It took me years
But I slowly gained courage to talk a bit more each time.
And in the end
I felt a lot better about myself
And, I was never afraid even if people said I was perverted, horny
or had too much hormones
Because I was really honest with myself
So, with this blog, I don't hide anything from people
A blog reflects a person
Like how every action of a person does (:
And so you can see, I keep a pretty open mind
And, though people may criticize me and comment on me being too open
I'll not back down
I am who I am
I won't go on lying to myself
I'll try to take all those criticisms like a man (:
As much as I can
Because I want to be who I am, no one else
I don't want to pretend I am happy on the outside anymore
Being able to express yourself is a virtue nonetheless
So remember, always remember....
Be true to yourself (:
You will find friends who will accept you
You don't have to force people to accept you
They will come along in the end
Keep believing
Because the world is so vast... and everyone is unique
There will be at least one friend who will accept you for who you are
And it's never about the quantity
1 true friend beats 1000 normal friends, or maybe more
And we don't have time for so many friends anyway
So I hope, people can understand just why I am like this
I am sure some people totally cannot comprehend why am I so
sexually aroused?
Everyone is different
Accept them for who they are, they should change only if they want to
NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT THEM TO!
It's okay to give friendly advice though
It is always welcome
So what is the truth within acceptance?
Acceptance is something gained
Or earned
Sometimes
You have to earn it slowly
Not all friends will accept you
But overtime some will, once they know how you are on the inside
People can usually tell subconsciously whether you're lying to yourself
But the people themselves may not realize it
The sixth sense is a gift most of us have but in which we do not utilize to the max,
only at a subconscious level mostly
Some severe cases of acceptance....
For guys or girls, it is the same
We wish so much to be accepted by the opposite sex that we
place the opposite sex on a pedestal
and treat him or her like a god/goddess
For hopes that he/she would accept her because after all
We did nothing wrong, we only treated him/her good
But that is not the way it should be done
Why? You ask.
Why not? I'm doing the right thing
I'm being a good man/woman
I want to show I can be a good partner
Let me just say this
"A servant can never marry a King/Queen
Because the servant always treats the King as a king
and hence the King will always treat the servant AS a servant"
If you truly like someone, do not put him or her on a pedestal
It's totally fine to be nice, but even niceness has a limit
You want him/her to be your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Then treat her like one
Not a king or queen or god
It's okay
Everyone makes mistakes, as long as we learn from it, life will be allright (:
Think of it
If someone treated you like a king then you will feel like a king
whenever she tries to please you
And so you would not treat her as an equal, even if you want to,
because subconciously you have been placed on the higher pedestal
and hence again subconciously it will be very hard for you to accept her
as a partner
Put some thought into it
Although in very rare cases, some people do not mind a king-servant relationship
Well, there are always exceptions in everything (:
So, this is just my opinion on being accepted by society as a whole
However, once again I will stress
I am not always right about everything
There are special cases, there always will be
Know yourself truly deep down
And perhaps you will find an answer
Just like I did (:
If you're strong, you definitely can do it (:
And always remember, humans are all different
Just because I'm A little, LITTLE bit hornier you don't have to kill me right (:
hahahaha!
I feel much better now
It's good to express yourself, practice it, you can see
the tone of this post gets lighter and lighter
It's good, it shows i'm feeling really better (:
Sometimes I can be deep, if I really want to
But it takes a lot of mind power, I'm actually kinda tired now hehe....
Hope you guys enjoy reading
I don't want this blog to be just about pic of girls real and fake ya noe
I want this blog to have variety
So I always try to post something different
For the sake of my fans, I work hard (:
Special Thanks to Karam, who always follows my blog
Danny Lo, Elliot, Sue May who always laugh at how I dare to post such crazy posts
Wee Vien, Kimmy, Ken Ee, Michelle Tan, they do drop by sometimes... and jason, jian, jenny? Not sure if they still read hahaha
Emlyn who just RECENTLY read my previous post LOL!! XD
Who else... Actually, everyone else who reads this blog!
Whoever you are (: I'm always happy whenver ppl say they like my blog
I truly feel like what im doing is paying off haha
And me being a guy makes it harder to blog, people generally read girl blogs just
to see girl pics
BUT NO WORRIES WE HAVE MANY OF THAT HERE MUAHAHAHAHAH!! XD
Thank you everyone!!
Have a great night (:
And thanks for all d support so far, I truly appreciate it ^ Infinity
Aishteruze Baby*
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