Before the Dating Game

HEYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA~!!!

To be honest it DOES NOT really feel like a holiday. Strange huh?

Yeah, I'm busy mostly doing club activities and stuff like that. It's pretty fun.

The only difference between last time and now is I get to introduce my own concept to running a club.

It honestly feels really good. It's just a lil tiring to hold posts in two clubs. So yeah! I gotta finish what I started eh? No going back hahaha!

Anyhow, since I'm back, it is time to begin blogging once again =)
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When you think of it, many of us have this very common mistake when we go into the dating game.

That's really because BEFORE we even go into dating, there is one VERY important step that most of us TEND to neglect.

What is that you ask?

Well, we tend to forget to ask ourselves WHAT we really want out of dating?

Is it a one night stand/hook up?

Is it a long or short term relationship?

Do you just wanna play around with different partners?

Or are you looking for more than that? Are you looking for marriage?

You see, it is SO important to KNOW what you want before you GO and get what you want.

It's like not knowing what you want to buy from the supermarket and yet you go to the supermarket anyway. Kind of stupid isn't it?

But most people DO go to the supermarket anyway. And they just pick up what they THINK they need. (And you wonder why break ups are so common)

Honestly though we should just sit down and ask ourselves, what do we really want out of the dating game?

If you can't even answer that question, truth be told you shouldn't EVEN be dating. Or else you'll just wind up in circles, or making more mistakes than you really need to.




With a clear goal in mind, your results will be different. It applies not only to dating, but really all aspects of our lives. Constantly remind yourself why you are dating. Is it a really good reason?

Cause if it isn't chances are your results are also going to really suck.

Simply because you don't have a good reason to hold on to.

Not everyone would agree with me, everyone has their own opinion, so I'll not hold you to it if you disagree with what I said.

So remember, it is the FIRST thing you should do. Get a clear reason. A clear goal. A clear direction. It'll help get you better results in the dating game. Just by doing this.

If you know what you want, getting what you want becomes a hell lot easier. And if you are able to clearly explain your intentions to your partner, it will enhance the relationship a great deal.

It definitely is not easy to talk to your partner about WHERE the relationship is going, but it is a very vital point that you do talk about it and make sure that you and your partner are on the same page.

Otherwise a lot of conflicts will emerge as the relationship goes on. Because both of you have a different picture (or no picture) about where the relationship should be going.

I cannot stress how important this is. Not talking about it or avoiding this will have more often than not, bad effects on the relationship.

I definitely know what I want. And I'm not afraid to tell others about it or even talk about it.

What about you? Would you be able to bravely express yourself? Not many have the courage to do so.

Don't take society too seriously. Most people just usually want something to comment on so when they find the slightest out-of-the-ordinary thing they'll go all hoo-haa over it.

Just be yourself, find out what you want out of the dating game, and you'll find it'll be easier to make progress since you know which path you wish to take =)

Good luck, all the best, and good night folks =3333
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