Are you the one?

Ahhh, I'm so so so so tired the past few days...



Have been sleeping late



Been dota-ing epicly madly lately XD XD



Well, it's pretty fun when you play in a team of friends instead of strangers =DDD



Today I tried to sleep in the afternoon... Didn't succeed >.<



Man I'm so terrible at sleeping!!!! Argh~~



What happened the last few days... Hm... Ah, I don't remember anymore XD XD



But lately I've been thinking once more



You know what... Ever since young, everyone has thought about "the one". And me too, I've thought about the concept of "the one" many many times. Since young



at least once, whether they are a player, a hopeless romantic, or even if you are the serious type of person now, you would have thought about it.



What is 'the one'? Actually?



Is it, your perfect match?



Is it your guilty pleasure?



Is it your solution to everything?



I've been wondering about it too, lately.



Most people would think that the relationship would be sweet, romantic and perfect. Just like in the movies~!



But I think otherwise. Your probably thinking now... Ohhhh, of course its not like the movies! Don't be silly



But hey. Deep down inside we ALL want it to be like the movies. Where sparks are always flying. The moments always feel right. The unmatched feeling of eternal love is probably unrivaled by no other



In reality though, it's sadly really not like the movies.



It's not always about the sparks. Not always about the moments that feel right. Not always about the eternal love.



Why?



Because a relationship, is something like, a piece of string



Both spouses are at two ends of the string



How do the two get closer? To each other?



The string must break. Then the both sides must work together to tie the knot again



Once they do that, they will be closer to each other.



Yes, in my opinion, problems are what bring couples closer together.



So what if, you always feel happy with him or her? Or your heart flies when you see him or her? Or when you see him or her , they've made your day?



You can go through all those kinds of emotions, but at the end of the day, what if the both of you cant stand strong together when problems come your way?



Being with someone in a relationship means constantly supporting each other, through each other's problems in daily life.



It's not just built based on a "like-in-the-movies" kind of happiness



That kind of happiness will come naturally, and it is in its purest form when you learn to care for one another, and the best part of it all is.



It's natural. You don't even have to try.



To constantly support each other, both spouses have to have a good understanding of each other as well.



What I'm trying to say is that, it's not just based on "I feel right with him or her", but also "I understand him or her" and "I am willing to be there for him or her when he or she has a problem".



Yeap, these are the main 3, perhaps there are more that I forgot to think of. But if you have these three checked then your well underway.



However, maybe you do feel right with him or her, maybe you do understand him or her, maybe your willing to be there for him or her.



But does he or she feel the same way about you? Relationships are always a two-way thing, if it's one way I think it's more like slavery instead of a relationship.



So, instead of 3, you have 6 things to check. Technically since you count his or her side too.



That's why relationships are so complicated.



That's why finding the one can be a really tough challenge



A lot of compromise and understanding of each other is required.



This means that, not MANY people can be "the one"



But it is possible that more than ONE people can be "the one"



So even if you don't find someone who can be your "one" at this point in life, there's plenty more of people you haven't met throughout your life, so just wait. It's better to wait for something good than to rush into a relationship just like that



STILL, i have to admite there ARE exceptions.

Just that this is the ideal kind of relationship to have =)))

Life is pretty exciting with it's ups and downs

Who knows when you'll meet the one?

We often don't get what we want in life.

So that's why it's always better to appreciate what you got than sulk over what you can never get.

It's like crying over spilt milk, or knowing that tomorrow the milk man will come again with new milk

And you can even sleep with the milk man if your a girl XD XD (or if your gay)

I joke I joke XD

Heyyyy, what's life without all them horny jokes? HAHAHA

It's always a blessing to have good people in your life. Catch ya guys soon ^^

p.s. relationships are in a way, unbelievable =)))