Misconceptions of love Part 2: Competition

OH GODDDDD~! The deadest every climbing session was TODAY!

Climbed from 3-9pm WTH MAN?!?!?!?! LOL!

Before that went for lunch at A&W, DID YOU KNOW THEY HAVE WAFFLES IN A MUG?!?!?! LOL SO COOL!!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!! Hahaha! My niece totally loves waffles + ice creammmm

Met an old highschool fren! Hope she's doing well =)))

Hmmm, forced my niece(not blood related) to start climbing first... then i lazy around like hell in the gym.

Then you know what? I just want to close my eyes and like sleep a few mins

AND EVERY 30 SECONDS MY NIECE WOULD ALWAYS DISTRUB ME

WTH!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!? !? CANT I CLOSE MY EYES?!?!?!??!?!?! FOR A MINUTE?!?!?!?!!?

WTHHHHHH!!! Man, WHY DO GIRLS TREAT ME LIKE THIS!!??! O.o!!!!!!!!

For.example.

Niece : Danny

Me : What?

Niece : NOTHING

Me : ............................

Niece : Eh danny

Me : What?

Niece : NOTHINGGGGG

Me : )$)!*#!(@#!@#)+_!)#+!)^(@*#$$@#)*)(**)_(_+

Someone.kill.me

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! GGNESS SOAEKOIUAJSDSLAKJDA

SO anyhow, bouldered, then only we went top ropinggggg. Then you know what?

I FORCED MY NIECE TO DO A ROUTE THAT NEARLY OBLIDERATED HER AHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Then in the end....... SHE KEPT HITTING ME!! WTH?!?!?!? I SWEAR SHE HIT ME 3 TIMES!! OR MORE!! LOL! AND STEP ON ME ALSO! AND ALSO CURSE AT ME?!?!?!?! O.O!!!!!!!!!!

Girls are so violent these days XD

Then in the end she made me do the route alsoooo, but it wasn't htat bad for me la, managed to finish it. IN YOUR FACE PT HAHAHHA!

She learned a new word today... RETRIBUTION WTH?!?!?!?!?! Man, ben you SO thought her a wrong word.

Niece : *hits danny*

Me : What was that for?!?!?!?!?!?

Niece : RETRIBUTION

Me : YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS!!!!!!

LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

BWAHAHAHAHAH!! Funny times man funny times

THen then... laterrrrr, you know whattt??

WE HAD TO DO HER FRIGGING ABS TRAINING AGAIN $*!&$)!)#*!@*#(!*#(!@

AND MY NIECE HAD A NEW ADDITION TO THE TRAINING

What was it? WE HAD TO BECOME A FRIGGING PLANK THAT'S WHAT THE TRAINING WAS OMG!??!?!?!!?!

Yesssss, AND MY BACK HURTS BECAUSE OF ITTTTTT!! GRRR!! And my abs too.

And THEN! Pooi lum comes, and gives us some even more FRIGGING FINGER TRAINING OMGGGGG!! LOL!!!!

That's y we only left around 9.30

Headed for supper~! Woops, actually dinner, we actually wanted to go waffle world.. But closing liao lor~ So went hainan coffee shop in tm instead. HEhe!

THENNNNN, back homeeee, had a bath its already 11.30pm... O.o!

Oh ! AND I LOVEEEEEEEE rihanna's new song! Only girl! Oh man, chorus is so so so sosososososos awesome and i simply love it =)

Maybe its just me aha!

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Okay! Time to get to serious stuff!

You know what, I've been thinking lately.

You know all these years, we've seen those... Dramas where people actually compete in love triangles etc etc.

In my opinion, love is NOT a competition

Don't get me wrong. Many cases where, 2 or more girls like one guy, or vice versa.

However, I disagree that people have to get jealous over each other.

YES, you will tell me its impossible not to feel jealous, but hey, don't let it spoil whatever friendship you have.

Surely you'd say, how can you say such a thing? It's like your losing on purpose since your not competing?

When was this ever about competing? Are you supposed to be better than the other guy or girl? Is that what your trying to prove?

Your being silly.

It's not about who is richer or who is smarter or who is handsome-r or prettier

It's about who better suits that person.

You'd say, exactly! that's what i've been trying to prove. That I'm better suited than the other person.

I disagree, you don't have to prove anything to ANYONE. Your just supposed to be yourself.

Nothing else. You don't have to ... See and compare and compete who spends more time with the guy or girl, or who makes him or her laugh more, or who makes him or her happier

Rubbish.

You don't need to compete. That's not love. That's ego.

People who have low self esteem are especially the ones to compete. Because they don't believe in their own self worth

They think "ah, what if im not better than the other guy or girl? I must do more, to prove that I'm better"

This is CLEARLY because you don't have any self esteem. Otherwise you wouldn't doubt your own value.

YOU are valuable. Just that, maybe the other person is better suited. Live with it, there'll be someone for you. And you gotta believe that your valuable

You ain't gonna be played into competing for someone. That's just... lowering your self worth.

SO say this. You are valuable. And you don't have to compete for anyone. The person who sees your worth will eventually be the one who appreciates you and live a good life with you.

So if you really think you need to compete for someone, then your probably portraying ego, and not love.

Understand love. Slowly you'll know what it is like

I am not sure either. But I think.. It's a warm feeling

I don't know, if it's that. But eventually, one day, I'll find out.

That's all for tonight folks~ CIAOZ! =D

p.s. So many mysteries =) can't wait to find out more about relationships =)